Part One – “They” always say………

That communication is the key.  Well, we are here to tell you that “they” are correct.  We will get into a little more detail below but in a nutshell…communication is everything in your workplace and it is what will make or break your business as well as personal relationships.  We are going to do a short three part series on this very important topic that is vital to your success. Now that you have had forewarning that I have on my psychologist pants today, we will proceed.

You can obviously tell that our resident financial and tax expert is not the one writing this today or he would tell you that MONEY is the key to your business!  And you may very well be sitting there thinking, MONEY, CASH FLOW and YOUR BOTTOM LINE are key (and they are so don’t take this the wrong way) but I have one simple question for you; how do you make your money?  If you are not able to communicate that with your people, your customers or potential investors, how are you going to make any of this…what was it again…oh yes, MONEY?!

So lets start with basic communication 101.  The definition of Communication, according to Merriam-Webster is; a process by which information is exchanged between individuals through a common system of symbols, signs or behaviors.  Sounds simple right?  The SBA says that small business have a 50/50 chance at staying alive after five years and Business Know-How suggests that the top seven reasons businesses fail are; 1 – starting a business for the wrong reason, 2- poor management, 3 – insufficient capital, 4 – location, 5 – lack of planning, 6 – over expansion and 7 – no website.  I think that all of you reading this would agree with me that in everyone of these categories, communication is involved in making decisions.

So how do you go about properly communicating?  There are different people out there that will tell you many different things, break it down psychologically, give you a class, teach you how to talk and I could go on for days.  I, however, think it is simple. The one thing to always understand is who you are talking to.  It does not matter how good you can sell, talk or BS, if you do not understand how the person or people across from you communicate then there will be no communication.  So before you start talking, LISTEN.  Get to know the other person as a communicator, do they like to do the talking or are they uncomfortable and need a little bit of a helping hand to get things going.  Look for little signs such as these and cater to the other persons weakness.  Also, basic clarifying during communication can be a large part of your success.  Ask the other person: “What do you think?” “How do you feel about what just happened?” “Does that make sense to you?” “Do you have any other ideas?” Too often people start heading down the path of problem solving before they understand what the other person wants to achieve. Understanding the other person is the key to your communication being a success or a failure.

I know you got a lot of information for your first session so we will cut it off there.  Your homework assignment this week is to get to know one person before engaging in a conversation with them and watch how much farther is gets you.  Remember to listen and engage them in the conversation and play off them.

ASPIRE has some great resources under our Human Resources and People segment that is headed by Patrice Say.  Patrice has many years of experience with issues of this nature and would love to help you and your team out.  She is a trained mediator and as mediator and a natural facilitator, she helps with those emotionally charged and sensitive communication issues that can disrupt the positive value of business communication.  Contact us when you need a partner for  straight forward communication and better results.

Have a great week and if you have any questions in the mean time, please feel free to contact via email at info@aspirepartner.com.  You can also check out the corresponding video blog that will be up on 02/22.

Thanks,

Team AP